I’m a homebody. Yes, I know I’m living in Australia, have moved twelve times since leaving the farm, but when people ask where home is, they hear the story of the little farm up on the northern prairies, next to the big woods country of Minnesota.
It was hard to believe that I’d been back in the country almost a week and this would be the first time that I’d be back on the farm.
It was a picture perfect summer day, so I decided to take one drive up Main Street. The old main street of the home town was decked out in its finest - with the big old trees shading the street on the south end of town by St Michael’s church slowly giving way to the flower planters and American flags that graced each light pole up and down Main Street. Not much had changed, though they had ripped down the old car dealership and lumber yard, both buildings that were threatening to come down on their own, with walls buckling and roofs sagging.
I did the classic pointer finger raised from the steering wheel of the car to wave at the people passing by. Most just thinking they are being kind to a stranger or some unnamed stranger, a few familiar faces lighting up as they recognized the face behind the wheel.
Then it was down Fairgrounds road - the classic old WPA brick buildings, then west by Green Acres, the newest subdivision in the town (circa 1970) - and the two miles to home.
Dad had mowed grass, so the place looked sharp, and there is nothing quite like the smell of fresh cut grass on a warm summer day. The late afternoon sun was shining down on me as I drove up the driveway.
It was good to be home.
Getting out of the car into the windless summer day, the grass smell combined with the humid, dank, earthy smell from the slough next to the house.
“Hello!” I called, walking into the house.
“Yea, Mark, you’re home.” Dad said matter-of-factly, but with a smile on his face.
We chatted for the next hour or so, Dad sending me running occasionally for some piece of paper or letter, “Grab that round robin letter on the counter, let’s see what Frank had to say - there was something I wanted to show you in there.” Or “Grab that Pioneer (the local hometown newspaper) off the table, think there is someone in there that you know.”
About six, we turned on the news, then - like clockwork, “What do you want to do for supper?” Dad asked, though he knew the answer.
“Oh, yeah, guess we could go to the Red Apple.” I replied. The Red Apple café is the only café in town. And it’s a good one. Dad has coffee there every morning and most of our formal family meals that don’t take place around our dinner table, take place at the Red Apple.
Back to town we went.
Being the social hub of the community, there was a fair amount of people walking in and walking by, providing a running commentary:
“Oh yeah Bob, see you got company tonight.”
“Oh yeah Bob, must be your turn to cook tonight.”
“Oh yeah Bob, see the boy is home.”
“Oh yeah, Bob, which one is this one? Is this the one Australia?”
Dad answered each comment with the appropriate response, usually smile and quick nod of the head, followed by some comment about the weather.
The food was always good, and I was hankering for a good Red Apple Special - a California burger - with waffle fries. A classic American meal.
Then came another family tradition, crop watching. The same line is used today as when we were kids, “Let’s go for a drive,” or the more abbreviated, “Let’s go for a ride around the block.”
If this is said Sunday afternoon at one o’clock, that normally means an all afternoon affair down some back roads far from home and/or some visit to a friend, neighbour, or relative. In the evening, it might just be a simple thirty to ninety minute driving through the neighborhood looking at crops and watching for deer.
Tonight, it was a hybrid, we did the drive, then driving home - we stopped at Urban’s. Urban, or Urbbie as he was known to us growing up, farmed just down the road from us, and is technically a cousin to Dad. They shared a lot of machinery together and it wasn’t uncommon to swap labor as needed either.
Pulling in, it was clear, we needed to do a little labor tonight.
Urban was trying to wrestle a big black, steel desk into his front door. Not an easy task to do on your own. In short order, Urban and I had it wrestled into place in his living room. As payment, Urbbie pulled out a couple of ice cream bars out of his freezer, and we sat out in the lawn in an assortment of chairs, talking farming, crops, and state of the local economy.
With the August sun settled into the red horizon, shining through the dust of wheat harvest kicking off farther wheat, we made our way back to the farmstead. Dad settled down for the night in his recliner - where he has slept for the last almost twenty years, and I went for a walk to take in the effects of the Minnesota summer twilight.
I slept well that night, with the comforts of home around me, the fresh night air wafting in the windows, and crickets singing me their lullaby.
“MARK! MARK! MARK!”
“WHHAAAT!”
“Are you awake?”
“Yeah!” I replied…at least I am now….I mumble under my breath….
“You wanted to go to coffee with me this morning?” Dad asked.
“Yup, coming.” I yelled back.
5:30am came much sooner than I expected. In an instant, I was dressed and ready to go. Then we waited. The 5:30 news was on, we had to watch that.
Then it was on to the Red Apple.
We walked through the doors slightly before 6:00am, and the place was just coming to life. The waitresses all knew Dad of course, and they were busy getting things ready for another busy day. There was already one person at the counter. And one person at the table.
Dad got his decaf, and I got my regular. I literally mean Dad got it, he serves his own coffee - since they don’t officially open until 6:00am, Dad usually gets his own coffee, part of the cost of being early.
The table we sat at, the big round table towards the back, was the biggest in the place and had eight chairs circling it. Little did I know the work out those chairs would get. Over the next two hours, it would be a constant game of musical chairs as various friends and neighbors came through the door, ordered a coffee, sometimes a bit of breakfast, and caught up on the news of the day. There were times when the eight chairs weren’t enough, so some were stolen from nearby tables. Over the course of the time we spent there, there must have been a good twenty people that make the trek through the door, to the coffee pot and to the table.
The conversation was pretty stock standard, who was sick, who died, who was in the hospital, the latest news from the school, the weather, the crops, the latest on the news from the elevator. I got asked a fair number of questions on Australia. And there was a good dose of humor and jokes thrown in for good effect as well.
Eight o’clock rolled around, about the time Dad would be heading off for daily Mass, but with Father on vacation, it was just home for me to get packed and head back down the road.
This was my first trip home, but it wouldn’t be my last on this trip.